siX Lies Of A MothER ??

  • This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn’t enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say ‘Eat this rice, son! I’m not hungry.’ This was Mother’s First Lie.
  • As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten; my heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, ‘Eat this fish, son! I don’t really like fish.This was Mother’s Second Lie.
  • Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, ‘Mother, go to sleep; it’s late: you can continue working tomorrow morning. ‘Mother smiled and said ‘Go to sleep, son! I’m not tired.’ This was Mother’s Third Lie
  • When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her… Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother’s love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too Mother said ‘Drink, son! I’m not thirsty!’ This was Mother’s Fourth Lie.

  • After Father’s infaithfulness , Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family’s life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family’s condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying ‘I don’t need love.’ This was Mother’s Fifth Lie.

  • In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, ‘Don’t cry, son! I’m not in pain.’ That was Mother’s siiixth Lie.
Telling me this, her sixth lie, she closed her eyes forever..


M - O - T - H - E - R

‘M’ is for the Million things she gave me,

‘O’ means only that she’s growing old,

‘T’ is for the Tears she shed to save me,

‘H’ is for her Heart of gold,

‘E’ is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,

‘R’ means Right, and right she’ll always be, Put them all together, they spell ‘MOTHER’ a word that means the world to me.

For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom’s presence on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren’t so blessed, this is even more beautiful…

1 Luahan hati:

pai_ilham al-adwa' said...

i'm touched by ur story dik!!...semoga terus diberi ketabahan dan kesungguhan..pasti arwah tenang ada ada like u..kagum!

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